Are you in a relationship that seems as if it is
stalled in the bedroom? If so, your first thought may be to terminate the
relationship. But, what if your relationship is long-term? What if you are
married? What if you really do love your partner? What steps should you take
then?
When it comes to being unhappy in the bedroom, it is
important to know that ending a marriage or a relationship should only be used
as a last approach. Instead, you will want to take steps to spice things up.
Doing so may improve more than just your intimacy, but it may do wonders for
your relationship in general.
As nice as it is to hear that you can and should spice
things up and in the bedroom, you may be unsure as to how you should proceed.
If that is the case, please continue reading on.
Below, four easy ways that you can spice things up in
the bedroom, are covered.
1 – Engage in Foreplay
When you do have sex, what happens? Do you and your
partner get right down to business? If you do, that may be a huge problem.
Unfortunately, many couples do not realize that intimacy is more than just
about having sex. It is also about having a happy and healthy relationship. If
you rely on sex to make your relationship succeed, there is a very good chance
that it will actually fail.
If you and your partner don’t already engage in
foreplay, start doing so. Also, remember that foreplay doesn’t have to start in
the bedroom. Call your lover, send a text message, or a handwritten note expressing
your desires to get intimate with them later on.
2 – Be Spontaneous
When you want to have sex, what do you do? If you
actually take the time to ask your partner if they want to be intimate with
you, you may be doing more harm than good. Asking first can make being intimate
seem more like a chore than something that should bring you pleasure. The next
time that you want to move to the bedroom, don’t ask first. Just lead your
partner there. In fact, who needs a bedroom?
Know that being spontaneous is about more than not
talking about sex first. Ways that you can be spontaneous with your partner is
to have sex at a different time, date, or place.
3 – Talk About Your Fantasies
One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems
with sex is because one person isn’t having their desires fulfilled. If that is
the case with you? Does your partner know what you like or what you want to get
out of being intimate? If not, it is time for you to let them know.
Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual
fantasies and desires. What would you like to try in the bedroom? In addition
to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies, be sure to let your
partner do the same. Remember that both of you should walk away from an intimate
encounter pleased.
4 – Experiment in the Bedroom
Another one of the easy ways that you can spice up
things in the bedroom is by experimenting. When doing so, you may be pleased
with all of your options. For starters, you can try a new sex position. This
may not only lead to extra pleasure, but fun and excitement.
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