Can You Take it All in?

It's man's nature to want to thrust his cock into you as far as he can get it, particularly at the moment when he cums. If he wants all of his cock in you, can you take it all in? Do you want to take it all in? Do you even need to take it all in? Well, the length of your mouth from your lips to the back of your throat is three to three and a half inches while the average cock's length is five to five and a half inches. The laws of nature would seem to say that getting all that cock into your mouth is an impossibility. The laws of sex say that you'll want to get all of it in you.

Don't look so sad, I can do it and so can you, you can take as much of his cock into you as you want. You simply take as much of it into your mouth as will fit there, and then slide your throat down over its head until the rest if it is in your mouth and your face is buried in his bush. It's called deep-throating, and when you really get into cock-sucking you'll probably want to do it. The term was made popular by Linda Lovelace in a porno movie in the seventies. She wasn't the first woman to do it by any means. Women have been taking men's cocks down their throats for centuries, she was simply the first to give it the current popular name.

You can give your man fabulous head without using your throat. Remember, most of the action occurs at the head of his cock, taking any more of it into your mouth is simply icing on the cake. You can use your mouth on the head of his cock and your hand on its shaft and put him on cloud nine. Personally, I like the icing and am willing to work for it, I want my face buried in his bush. Although most men will be satisfied with the cake, I've never met one who would turn down the icing. You need to try it to find out if you get any pleasure out of it, if you've given it a good try and simply don't like it, then don't do it, he'll understand.

It's fairly easy to learn to "take it all in." Getting his cock in your throat is easy, getting your throat used to it being in there is what takes the practice. I don't want to be boring, but if you understand the anatomy of your mouth and throat, you'll see how easy it really is to take his hard cock down into your throat. The biggest obstacle to getting it into your throat is usually not the size of either his cock or your throat, it's that sharp bend behind your tongue at the entrance to your throat, you know the one your doctor uses a mirror to see around while he presses your tongue down with that stick. Stand in front of a wall mirror and use a hand mirror to get a good side view of your head and neck. Open your mouth wide, tilt your head as far back as you can and see how your open mouth almost lines up with your neck, that bend is almost gone. Check out your guy's cock, feel how flexible it really is, especially the end of it. Look at the shape of its head, no problem to slide it around that curve.

A little more anatomy, yours this time. The length of your mouth, oral cavity, is three to three and a half inches from your lips to what I'm going to call the back of your throat, its that vertical part of your throat that you see when you look in a mirror. Your trachea, the tube to your lungs, is at the front of your neck, you can feel it with your fingers. Your esophagus, the tube to your stomach, is behind the trachea. Your throat, which is vertical and about four inches long, connects your mouth to your esophagus in a straight line. When you take anything into your mouth, your tongue rises against the rear part of the roof of your mouth, the soft pallet with its attached uvula, to close off your throat. When you swallow, your tongue whips backwards and shoots whatever is in your mouth down your throat and into your esophagus. There's an opening in the front side of your throat that leads into the larynx, the entrance to your trachea. The larynx has a flap or lid, epiglottis, that closes off the larynx to prevent anything from entering your trachea, like his cum, when you swallow. The larynx also contains your vocal cords. This arrangement lets his cock slide from your mouth down to the bottom of your throat without entering your larynx or disturbing your vocal cords.

Your throat is about two inches wide at its entrance, a little less from front to back as it passes behind the larynx. It's somewhat bigger in diameter than the average cock. The entrance into your esophagus from your throat is only about one inch in diameter, so his cock won't go into your esophagus. This lets you take slide your mouth and throat down over a cock about seven or so inches long and an inch and a half or so in diameter until your lips are pressed against his groin and have the head of it just pressing against the bottom of your throat. It makes a nice fit, your guy's cock will just about fill your mouth and throat, you'll like the feel of it filling you up.

Practice, Practice, Practice

You should do some homework before you try to deep-throat a real live cock. I don't like to get into technical discussions about anything as pleasurable and emotional as sex, however, I don't want you to run into any unpleasant surprises that will turn you off before you experience the pleasures of deep-throating. You'll need to learn some simple details that'll help you overcome your gag reflex and control your breathing before the pleasures of deep-throating can really be enjoyed.

Probably one of the first things you encountered when you started sucking his cock was a gag reflex when it went too far in. It's the natural tendency of your body to gag when a foreign object, such as a deeply thrusting cock, is sliding down into your throat. With practice you can learn to control your gag reflex. The next thing to learn is how to relax your tongue so you can slide his cock past it and down into your throat. You also have to learn to control your tongue during the entire time you're deep-throating.

There's really not much learning involved. You've already gotten used to having his cock in your mouth, now all you have to do is get used to having it in your throat. Get a soft, flexible dildo of the proper size so you can practice with it in private at your leisure, the solid jellies are the most comfortable. Get what's called a "double dong" so that you'll have something straight with enough length to hold on to, one and a quarter inches in diameter and ten inches long is a good size to start with. Most cocks are not much bigger in diameter and you need one this long to find out how much cock you can take. If your guy's cock is bigger in diameter, then get a bigger one after you've mastered the one and a quarter. Depending on the size and shape of your throat, you may be able to breathe slowly through your mouth, maybe your nose, after you get the dildo past your pallet and down into your throat a ways. Otherwise, learn to time your breathing with the in and out strokes of the dildo.

If you don't have any adverse reaction to the medicine, dissolve one or two Cepacol or equivalent sore throat lozenges in your mouth about fifteen minutes before you start to practice with the dildo. They'll mildly anesthetize your throat and may eliminate the gag reflex until you get used to having it in your throat. Be careful though and don't get too aggressive with the dildo when your throat is anesthetized or you could bruise the lining at the back without feeling it.

Now that you know what you're pushing it into, open your mouth and slowly slide the dildo in as far as you can without gaging. Hold it there, breathing normally, until you're comfortable with it in your mouth. When you put something in your mouth, you begin to salivate. It's difficult to swallow the saliva with the dildo in your mouth, it'll interfere with your tongue as it tries to drive things out of your mouth and down your throat. You can go through the motions of swallowing with the dildo in your mouth but you probably won't swallow much if it's in very far. If you get the urge to swallow, do it, it won't hurt anything and you won't really swallow the dildo, or his cock if that's what you're working on at the time. For most women, swallowing can suppress the gag reflex, so practice swallowing with the dildo in your mouth, starting with it just past your teeth continuing until it's all the way down your throat. Try swallowing when you get his cock in your throat, it feels good to him.

If your head is tilted back, the saliva will run down your throat and interfere with your breathing so you'll have to take the dildo out and clear your mouth and throat from time to time. Try sliding the dildo in a little farther. By now you've probably got it to the point where you'll start to gag. When you feel like you're going to gag, try swallowing, this usually stops the gag. If it doesn't, pull the dildo out and relax. Now slide it slowly back in until you feel the gag reflex again, pull it back out a little, swallow and push it back in.

Play with it with your tongue, feel how it fits in your mouth. Learn get your tongue to come down from the roof of your mouth at the rear when you have the dildo in there. You'll have to get it down before you can get the dildo to go down into your throat. Stick your tongue out as far as you can between your teeth and the dildo. This will pull your tongue down, all you have to do is get used to keeping it down. Play some music, read a book, watch TV, just get used to it being in there. Suck on it, work on it like it was a big piece of stick candy. When you get used to it being in that far, slide it in further. Keep going, a little at a time, until it comes up against the back of your throat. As it nears the back of your throat, it'll begin to close off the passage to your nose and interfere with your normal breathing. You can probably breathe through your mouth so try that. If you can't, then take a deep breath, slide it in and hold it there until you need to take another breath, take it out, breathe and slide it back in. Keep practicing with the dildo until you're comfortable with it in your mouth, your tendency to gag is gone and you can keep your tongue down.

Once you're used to the dildo being all the way in your mouth, the next step is to get it down into your throat. To do this you'll have to get it "around the corner." Tilt your head back so that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line and try to slide it in further. Try tilting your head back and forth while you're sliding it in. You'll be able to feel the improvement this makes. There's also a vertical ridge in the back of your throat. The dildo will slip to one side or the other of this ridge as you continue to push in on it. You can twist it around to make it go one way or the other. If one side begins to feel uncomfortable, use the other. 

In the beginning, the best way to get it "around the corner" and down into your throat isn't to just push it but to literally inhale it. This is also easier on the back of your throat. Put the dildo all the way in your mouth and fold your tongue up around it to make a seal, hold your nose, and, while pushing in on it, inhale hard using your lungs to suck it around the corner, it'll go easily as your lungs pull it down into your throat. You may be able to inhale it by simply inhaling quickly and deeply. You'll have to limit how deep a breath you take before you try to inhale it though. Once you get it around the corner, it'll just slide on down. With practice, you'll probably be able to simply slide it in your mouth and on down to the bottom of your throat with one smooth stroke, but inhaling it is sort of fun sometimes. When you push the dildo, or his cock, into your throat, it wants to stop against the back of your throat. As you push harder, it suddenly breaks loose and sort of pops down into your throat, after that it slides on down almost as easily as it went into your mouth. 

Don't try to slide it all the way down your throat at first, just get it around the corner. If you can breathe with the dildo in your throat, great, open that back up, otherwise, when you need to breathe, pull the dildo back out, take a deep breath, slide it back in and then open the book up. While it's in there, move it in and out some, twist it around. If you feel that you're going to gag, try swallowing or pull back on the dildo, it'll pop right out. If you do gag or cough with it still in your throat, don't worry, it won't hurt anything. Pull it out, relax, then try it again. 

After you get the dildo down in your throat, it doesn't make much difference how you hold your head. It'll feel more comfortable in some positions and will have some effect on your breathing but nothing major. With your head held back, your saliva will run down your throat and interfere with your breathing. If you sit upright and are breathing through your mouth, it'll drool out of your mouth. The most comfortable position is probably sitting upright in a chair with a head rest, breathing through your mouth with a towel under your chin. 

After your throat gets used to it being in that far, slide it in further and hold it there for a while. Continue sliding it down into your throat one step at a time, holding it after each step to swallow and relax your throat. Continue this pattern until you've got it in about four or five inches. If your throat starts to feel sore or just doesn't like for the dildo to be in there, stop and try it again the next day. Don't feel discouraged, these details will soon become second nature and you won't even realize you're doing them. Remember, you're practicing with the dildo so that one evening, when you're busily working away on his cock, you can look up at him, smile, and, with one smooth movement, bury your face in his bush. Look forward to taking his cock into your throat, it'll feel good there, not foreign like the dildo. It's much softer and will enter your throat without any discomfort. 

Most of the time, you'll want to breathe through your nose when you've got his cock in your mouth. Find out where the dildo begins to block the breathing passage from your nose to your throat. It'll be at the point where the dildo pushes back on your soft pallet and uvula as it begins to enter your throat. Slide it in and out, blocking and uncovering your breathing passage, until you can readily find the location. The soft palate, which closes off your throat from your nose, may tend to stay closed as you withdraw the dildo, especially if you're trying to exhale at the same time, you'll get used to controlling this. You'll soon get to the point where you can stroke the dildo in and out from your teeth well down into your throat and wiggle it around in your throat without getting the urge to gag on it. Now, slide it on down and find out how much cock you can really take. As it slides past the entrance to your trachea you may get a choking response and cough, like you had taken some water down the wrong way. 

Just pull it back out and relax, then put it back in and play around in that area until your throat gets used to it. If the choking response doesn't ease up, take it out and try it again the next day. When you feel any significant resistance or discomfort, probably around seven or so inches, stop, you've hit your bottom line. Set the limit of the size cock you'll allow anyone to shove into your throat about an inch short of that point, plenty of room to take the average cock all the way in. On one of your practice strokes, take a deep breath and keep the dildo almost to the bottom of your throat for a while, sliding it in and out using one or two inch strokes at about one stroke a second, getting the bottom of your throat used to his climax. 

As you practice with the dildo, develop a breathing rhythm. Stop with the dildo just clear of your throat, take a deep breath and hold it. Then, push the dildo into your throat, sliding it all the way to the bottom in one smooth motion and hold it there until you feel the need to exhale. Smoothly withdraw the dildo until it just clears your breathing passage, stop, quickly exhale and inhale, hold your breath and take the dildo all the way back in. Wait until you need to take another breath and repeat the cycle. Do this until the breathing cycle becomes second nature without even thinking about. It won't take long to learn. 

If you practice every day for about ten or fifteen minutes, you'll have it down into your throat in less than a week. Another week of fifteen or twenty minutes a day and you'll be comfortably stroking it down to the bottom of your throat.