Are you
married? If you are, you likely love your husband. With that said, love isn’t always enough to
keep a relationship going strong. Intimacy is very important to having a
strong, happy, and healthy relationship.
How is your
life in the bedroom? Do you
think that your sex and intimacy can be improved? If so, you may be nervous
about discussing the subject with your husband. After all, your husband may
wrongly get the impression that they don’t satisfy you anymore. If you are interested
in improving your intimacy with your husband, there are still a number of
other, different approaches that you can take. A few of these approaches
are touched on below.
1 – Date
If you and your husband have been
married for a while, there is a good chance that you haven’t gone out on a date
in a while. Many married couples get to a point in their relationship that is
commonly called “the comfort zone.” This zone is not one that you want to be
in, as your relationship may feel more like a friendship. To prevent this from
happening, ask your husband out on a date.
Although many wives believe that
their husbands should do the date asking, you sometimes have to take hold of
the situation yourself. Now may be one of those times. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a
romantic comedy for a movie or a nice restaurant. This can help to spark a
little bit of romance and passion in your relationship, which may lead to better
and closer intimacy at home.
2 – Show
Romantic Gestures
When it comes to “wowing,” in a
relationship, women sometimes think that men should do it. You will also want
to “wow,” your husband, like you did the first time that you met. One of the
easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of romantic gestures. When out shopping
with your husband, grab their hand and hold it. When walking by them in the
house, give them a quick kiss. Sending a love note to work with them is another
romantic gesture that you may want to try.
3 – Be Sexy
and Seductive
If your
marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, sex and intimacy may
seemlike a thing of the past. If
you do have sex, it may seem more like a responsibly, a chore, or even work. To
help reduce these feelings, be sexy and seductive. Do not wait for your husband to initiate sex
and do not ask if your husband is up for it first, just get right down to business.
Strip for your husband or simply just remove their clothes. Snuggle next to them on the couch
and just start massaging their whole body. You may be surprised just how easy and
effective it is to be sexy and seductive.
4 – Be
Spontaneous
As it was previously stated, do not
ask your husband if he wants to have sex and do not wait for him to start. Instead,
take matters into your own hands. Whether you start with a little bit of foreplay or jump right into the
intercourse, do so. Your husband should like the surprise. Also, remember that
being spontaneous involves having sex at different times of the day, as well as
in different locations of the house.
5 – Offer to
Experiment In the Bedroom
To improve sex
and intimacy it is important to know that a change can do you good. You may want to suggest to your
husband that you experiment in the bedroom or take them up on their suggestion
to do so. Remember that experimenting in the bedroom doesn’t have to mean
getting an additional sex partner or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
A new sex position may be just what your relationship needs.
As you can see, there are a number
of easy ways that you can go about improving your intimacy with your husband. So
what are you waiting for? Get started today.
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