If you are
looking to improve your sex life, chances are you may be up for a little bit of
experimenting. Experimenting in the bedroom is how many couples improve their relationships
and not only in the bedroom. The only problem is that some individuals do not know
that there is a line that shouldn’t be crossed.
Before you
suggest experimenting in the bedroom to your partner or before you start doing,
it is important to know that there are consequences for going too far. Before
closely examining those consequences, it is important to determine what too far
actually means. Here is the problem, many individuals are unsure. You
know your partner through. Will
he or she be turned on with the addition of a new sex partner or sex toys or
will he or she be turned off?
You should
know before you proceed.
As for what
the consequences are to taking experimenting in the bedroom too far, your partner’s
feelings may be hurt. Unfortunately, many spouses and significant others
believe that experimentation is needed
in the bedroom because they aren’t able to fulfill your desires enough on their
own. If this wasn’t bad enough, their mind may start to wander. Do you really want to be with them
any more? Are you cheating? Will you start cheating soon?
Another
consequence to taking experimentation in the bedroom too far is the view that
your partner may develop about you. Do you want to add another sex
partner into the mix? If you do,
your significant other may start to think very poorly of you. She may think
that you are sick or sex crazed. If your main goal is to improve your overall
relationship, not just the intimacy in the bedroom, this is an important factor
that you will want to take into consideration before suggestion something
extreme.
If you take
experimenting in the bedroom too far, y our partner may no longer wish to have sex
with you. In fact, he or she may start to avoid having any form of intimacy
with you. This occurs for a number of different reasons. Typically, if your
partner is turned off by what you are suggesting, they are likely to put off
having sex with you, even just for a short period of time.
If avoiding
sex wasn’t enough, you may find your relationship coming to an end. Unfortunately,
many individuals, possibly just like you, do know how big of a deal experimentation
in the bedroom can be. Remember that there is a difference between trying a new
sex position and having your spouse pretend to be an old girlfriend of yours or
even bringing an old girlfriend into the bedroom. If you are not careful with
how you proceed, spicing up your intimacy may be the least of your problems.
You may find yourself alone and in an empty bed, having to start the whole
process over again.
As you can
see, there are a number of consequences to expecting too much of your partner
in the bedroom. Experimenting in the bedroom can help to spice up your sex
life, but just be sure to use your best judgment. Do not offer up suggestions
that you already know your partner will refuse, as there may be serious
consequences for doing so.
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