Are you married? If you are, there are likely a lot of topics that you and your wife
discuss throughout the day. Common conversation topics include work,
friends, family, and bills. One
topic that many couples do not always discuss, even though they should, is that
of sex. Are you interested in improving your sex life? If you are, you may need
to talk to your wife, but should you?
Yes. You should. It is important to talk to your wife. An open line of communication is important
to have a happy and healthy relationship in general. Poor communication may
have a negative impact on your entire relationship, not just your sex life.
Husbands who do not properly communicate with their wives often end up putting
their relationships in harms way.
Do not let
this happen to you and your marriage. If you do decide to talk to your wife
about sex, namely improving your intimacy, it is important to proceed with
caution. You do not want to criticize your wife or make her feel inadequate. Are
you not having your desires filled? If so, don’t outright tell your wife that.
Doing so may cause even more problems to arise. You do want to get the best level of
intimacy possible, but you also don’t want to hurt your wife’s feelings in the
process. For that reason, you may want to try a different approach. Consider
suggesting new things in the bedroom, such as a new position or a weekend away.
When talking to your wife about sex, it is also important
not to push. If you want to
see an improvement in your sex, state so and give a few suggestions. However,
do not keep on brining the topic back up. Give your wife a few days or even a
few weeks to make adjustments in the bedroom. This time is needed because your
wife may be hurt when she learns that you aren’t pleased by her sexually. It is
natural for her to take time to think about the situation before taking action,
which may involve implementing a few of your suggestions.
Next, it is important to listen to what your wife has to
say. Unfortunately, many men
make mistake of believing that their wives just aren’t interested in being
intimate anymore. Although this can be true in some cases, it likely isn’t the
case with your wife. Your wife may experience other problems. For
example, many women are nervous and fearful of aging. This may result in them wanting to showcase
their body less. A deceased sex drive may also be caused by something out of
your wife’s control, such as a medical condition or a medication side effect.
That is why it is not only important to talk to your wife, but also listen to
what she has to say.
If you
still do not know how to start a conservation about sex and intimacy with your
wife, there is another approach that you can take. You can consider
giving her a gift. There are a
number of great gifts available that can not only be useful in the bedroom, but
gifts that can help to get a conversation started. A book on new sexual
positions, a new sexy outfit, or massage oils are all items that you may want
to examine. A gift not only provides you with an opportunity to start a
conversation, but it is also a nice gesture. Depending on what you decide to
purchase, you may find it easier to shop online. Many stores are discrete with
the packages they send out; therefore, you should be able to keep your wife’s
gift a surprise even if she is the one to pickup the mail.
In short,
talking to your wife about sex may be something that you want to avoid, but you
shouldn’t. An open line of communication is vital to a happy and healthy
relationship.
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