Are you looking to improve your sex life? If you are, you may have already heard that
being spontaneous is advised. Spontaneity often leads it an increase in
interest and an increase insatisfaction, in terms of intimacy. Unfortunately,
some men and women find being spontaneous a lot easier said than done. If you
are one of those individuals, please continue reading on for some helpful tips.
One of the
many ways that you can be spontaneous is by not waiting for your partner to initiate
sex. Unfortunately, many women wait for their husbands or boyfriends to get sex
started. Why wait? You
shouldn’t. In fact, did you know that your partner may be hoping that you start
showing more interest in being intimate with them? What better way to do so than
to initiate sex yourself?
A creative
way to be spontaneous, where sex and intimacy is concerned, is by using text messages.
If you and your partner have and use cell phones, send sexy and seductive text messages
to them. In addition to text messages, you can also call your partner or send
love notes with them when they walk out the door.
As
previously stated, there are some individuals who find it difficult to be
spontaneous. Parents are often one of those individuals. Even if you are a
parent who has children in the house, there are a still a number of ways that
you can be spontaneous, in terms of intimacy with you partner. Did you
just put your children down for bed? Jump on your partner, literally, as soon as your kids leave the room.
Most parents want to sit down and relax after their kids have gone to bed, but
show your partner that you have other things on your mind.
Having sex
somewhere other than the bed or the bedroom is another way to be spontaneous with
your partner. If you are a parent who has kids in the house, just be careful.
Don’t have sex outside of the
bedroom when they may be awake at night and don’t be too loud or you may have
an uncomfortable situation on yours hands.
As for where you can have sex outside of the bedroom, use
your creativity. Where do you want
to have sex? What locations would allow you to try new positions that just
can’t be done in a bed? In addition to being intimate in places like on the
couch, in a closet, in the bathroom, or on the kitchen table, consider going
outside of the home as well, like to a hotel.
Speaking of getting intimate outside of the home, surprise
your partner. You can do this
by booking a night at a hotel in town. Make sure you choose one that has
romantic rooms or an onsite hot tub or swimming pool. If you are a parent, arrange
childcare for your children first, like by calling on a trusted friend or
family member. Don’t tell your partner about your plans until you are ready to
leave, as being spontaneous involves surprising them.
As you can
see, there are a number of different ways that you can use spontaneity as a way
to improve your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom. What
are you waiting for?
Get started
today! Your partner may appreciate your quick thinking.
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